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Archives for January 2018

London Reminded Me of Who I Am

January 18, 2018 By Caroline Peterson

How do you leave a place that has been so integral to who you are as a women, as a wife, as a friend, as a contributing member of society? The simple answer is, you don't. Much like your first love, it's hard to forget the place that seeped into your heart and carved out a niche in your mind.

For me, that's London.

As we left Paddington Station on the day of our arrival this past late-November, we made our way towards my place of solace, Hyde Park. I found myself overcome with a wide-range of emotions. I was back. I was home. So much had changed. So much has stayed the same.

Reasons Why I Love London

During our time exploring the nooks and crannies of my old stomping grounds, I quickly fell back into the London pace of things: hopping on and off the tube, standing on the right, walking on the left, looking to the right before crossing a road, grabbing a proper ale and queueing like a pro.

I breathed in diversity. I reveled in the arts. I soaked in the history. I was surrounded by multiple languages.

I spent time meeting up with friends who were impactful during integral times in my life.

I was home.

It has been over a decade since I lived in London interning at a human rights organization. At 22, I was a charismatic, ambitious, go-getter with hopes of traveling and making a meaningful impact in the world.

I’m still that 22-year-old. Just a bit older and sadly, more jaded.

It was hard to swallow the knot of regret that filled my throat as I remembered some dreams that have yet to come to fruition; thinking of the time that’s gone by as time lost. I got emotional walking down the streets in Brixton where I used to walk each day on my way to work. So much had changed, including me. But, even in those reflective moments, I still deeply recognized and more importantly, identified with those goals I still have.

I was in London with the love of my life enjoying watching him fall in love with the city I used to call home. It’s something that’s hard to describe, seeing your forever pal take a genuine interest in something you keep close to your heart.

On our last night in London, we sat by the Thames talking about our dreams, our future. Sharing the realities of our current long-distance marriage, the hardships of his medical residency and where we hoped those sacrifices would take us in 5 years. As the glow of the outside heater cast a yellow light on the hubster’s face, I couldn’t help but feel incredibly lucky. To share this vulnerable moment with him, to have his partnership by my side.

I may not physically be that 22-year-old anymore, but I was quickly put on notice that the same kind-hearted, compassionate, curious, creative, hard-working gal still resides in there. She may have diverted from the path for a bit, but those dreams and desires still hold true.

Now is the time to take a leap of faith in the same spirit a 22-year-old did when moving to a foreign country. Why not do it and see where it takes me? The greatest stories and life lessons of my existence have begun that way.

London was just what I needed to remind me what’s important. To remind me of what fulfills me. To remind me of the values I still posses. To remind me…of me.

From the bottom of this old(er) gal’s heart, thank you, London. You were, and forever will be, just what I needed.

Filed Under: England

My Travel Plans for 2018

January 7, 2018 By Caroline Peterson

I’m often asked, “So, where ya’ off to next?” or “Hey world, traveler. Where’s the next destination?” or “Jesus. Do you ever stay in the country?”

Haters gonna hate. 

This year is starting off like most, with future travel plans mostly solidified or at the very least set in motion. But there’s a twist, because we don’t have anything set on the docket after May. Blasphemy! Read on to find out (sorta) why.

January – Key West, FL

Hubster was here in Fort Lauderdale for a brief time after Christmas and then me and the gals hit the road down to Key West. We stayed at the Sheraton Suites Key West, right near Smathers Beach and rang in the new year on Duval street downtown. Overall it was a great, well-needed getaway with my close friends.

I’ll be honest, I was shocked at how bad The Keys were between Key Largo and Key West. For those of you unfamiliar, The Keys are a string of tropical islands stretching 120 miles below the Florida peninsula, starting with Key Largo and ending in Key West; 43 keys are connected via bridges all the way down to Key West. The Keys are quite literally still recovering from Hurricane Irma and it broke my heart. How could I live in the same state and not know this? How did it fall off the media radar so quickly? Please keep The Keys and Puerto Rico in your mind when making any donations in 2018. I know we certainly contributed with our tourist dollars in Key West.

 

February – Hong Kong

Victoria Peak Hong Kong

As I mentioned last year in My 2017 Travel Plans, we were hoping to string together 2 weeks of vacation to head back to Southeast Asia in 2018. Mission accomplished.

We booked these flights last year, all on miles and points, all in business class, landing in Hong Kong and departing from Bangkok. Up until last month, that was all that we had planned. Ha! My original intent was to go directly to Myanmar via a cheap regional airline once we got to Asia. But the human rights atrocities that are happening to the Rohingya Muslims sealed the deal on my conscience not letting that happen.

As some of you may remember, we had originally planned to go to Myanmar back in 2015, but the entire trip was canceled. I mentioned then that it broke my heart that I wouldn’t get see the temples in Bagan, Myanmar. I guess they will still have to wait.

So we start our adventure in Hong Kong, which I’m so excited to show the hubster. I went there alone in 2015 and knew the first night I was there that he’d love it. We’re staying at both The Intercontinental in Kowloon and also the Conrad on the main island. Both were booked using points. I love travel hacking!

See how little I paid for my last trip to Hong Kong here: How I Stayed in Fancy Hotels for 10 Nights for under $400

Also, can we talk about all the dumplings and pork buns I’m going to eat?!

 

March – Hanoi, Vietnam; ? & Bangkok, Thailand

From Hong Kong, we fly into Hanoi, Vietnam and stay at the Hilton Garden Inn near the Old Quarter for 3 nights. Yup, you guessed it, both the flight and hotel were all booked on points again. So far, this trip has only cost us a few booking fees and taxes. Yeah, buddy!

See how I little I paid for all my flights in Business Class here: Airfare: How I Flew In Business Class To Australia, New Zealand And Hong Kong For Under $100

After Hanoi, we may go to Halong Bay. We may go down to Hoi An. We may take a flight to Cambodia and explore the country we love so much a little more. We know we want some beach time and are looking at beaches in Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand.

Who knows where the next stop is?! That’s part of the adventure!

We depart from Bangkok really late at night, so we may stay the night before in Bangkok to see the city that I have a love/hate relationship with. Oh and to also be able to sing, “One Night in Bangkok” the entire time.

Because I’m 13 years old.

 

April – Las Vegas, NV

Just like last year, I’m heading to Vegas for my nugget niece’s birthday. She’s turning the big 0-4 this year. Oh. And. THE HUBSTER BOUGHT ME ELTON JOHN TICKETS FOR CHRISTMAS! So, I’ll be doing that. Yup. I’ll be heading there to see that man with my man. Yup. Just a little excited.

 

May & Beyond – ?

Reasons Why I Love London
Italian Gardens in Hyde Park // I’ve take the same photo since I was 17.

As I alluded to in my end of the year post, there’s a big announcement coming. (Nope, not pregnant, dbags.) It’s still something quite life changing. In fact, it will determine if I’m traveling a whole-heck-of-a-lot more after May or sticking close Fort Lauderdale. So, I can’t totally make travel plans as of yet.

Stay tuned.

Now share with me – what are your travel plans in 2018!

Filed Under: Asia, Travel, Travel Hacking, Travel Prep

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