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Archives for March 2015

“Why are you here?”

March 25, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

I will never forget that question, because I couldn’t quite find a good answer. In the spring of 2007, I was driving back to the office with a coworker after an absurd meeting with a client. She had recently started at our small Michigan agency and I was explaining my background, which included having an internship in London for 6 months. She asked me a bit about it because she loved to travel as well.

I’m sure my eyes lit up when speaking for my love of London or all things British. I still swoon for those rolling English hills and I was just there 2 years ago. Or maybe I started mumbling about how I was supposed to meet Prince William then but it never worked out. Either way, I must have left an impression because she caught me quite off-guard.

“Why are you here, Caroline?”

I couldn’t give a good enough answer. I couldn’t think of a solitary reason…why I was here. Not even my now ex-boyfriend was a reason for me to stay and deep down I knew that.

I stumbled over my words and ended up just saying, “I don’t know.”

I kind of wanted to punch the bright-eyed newbie in her pretty face for making me question my life so much in the blink of an eye.

I just didn’t know why.

The project management job I had at that marketing agency didn’t provide a viable path for advancement (obviously) and ultimately, it wasn’t what I wanted to be doing. Sure I had ideas of what I wanted to do, but more often than not, I knew what I didn’t like…and I was doing just that.

I accepted a job offer about a year after that innocent gal dared to asked me why I was still in Michigan. It seemed a step in the right direction, but I quickly saw it wasn’t a good fit.

Like most people though, I didn’t do much about it. I was being paid well enough. The now hubster and I were looking into various countries to visit and dreaming of adventures. Egypt was at the top of our list. I was keeping myself busy by imagining what else was out there.

Instead of seeking out what would really fulfill me and not just what was comfortable, you know what really made me reevaluate my life?

I got laid-off.

Me and 20% of the company. (And a huge part of Metro-Detroit.)

BAM! An entire auto-industry, in the shitter. Here’s your severance package. Here’s your office stuff. Thanks for playing.

You aren’t supposed to feel a mixture of relief and bitterness as you walk back to your car and swipe your parking pass through the gate one last time. But I did.

My heart couldn’t let me go back to that dynamic. It’s hard to describe to people who so fervently dismiss exploring your dreams for something more consistent and comfortable. But I knew it wasn’t for me. Sure the paycheck was, but that sort of grind wasn’t. Not one that sucked my soul and creativity.

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At a crossroads, I chose to be perpetually poor for years and decided to go back to school for broadcast and media arts, something I always wanted to explore more. If I’m being honest, I still debate to this day as I pay back my student loans if it was worth it, as I’m sure many of you do. Sure I gained great skills, but nothing tangible besides my freelance work was panning out afterwards.

I was in a holding pattern of part time jobs, school and freelance work that weren’t career paths while the hubster applied for medical schools. I kept writing here, in retrospect, probably as an outlet. I knew there was an end. I held onto that little fleck of life until I squeezed every last bit of hope out of it I could.

When we moved down to Fort Lauderdale 2.5 years ago, much to the husband’s chagrin and our bank accounts, I stuck to my guns about jobs I would apply for. With a decade of marketing experience, I could mold myself into a lot of positions that were similar to what I had done before. But I knew I would be miserable, eventually. I had to trust my gut, even at the behest of more arguments.

When I applied for my current job as a copywriter that involved enough writing to make my heart swell, I knew I had found a solid direction and I was right where I needed to be. All my marketing experience and each track I’ve taken in between had conspired to get me here. I also work with people who say fuck a lot. So, basically, I’m right where I need to be.

Today, I’m happy at my job (more often than not) and I’ve worked really hard to set up a life that allows for traveling around the world just for funzies. Something my heart desperately, desperately needs. And also something that the former “comfortable” life didn’t leave much room for.

Now if I can write about my travels, we’d be set. Oh wait, that’s what this here blog is.

What is my point in this little, cushy feel-good story?

Don’t let some pretty, fresh-faced college grad make you question your life. Take the reigns and ask yourself now, “Why are you here?” If you can’t find a good answer, get crackin’!

Even if that means you stumble along the way, you take jobs that are below your pay grade, you volunteer in something that’s interested you for years, take a class you’ve been meaning to try or even if you are left looking back wondering if you should have tried something different. Who cares? Try it. I’m a prime example of trying it and it working out.

I questioned myself nearly every step of the way. The tauntings of the comfortable life while we were flat broke left me wondering if this direction I was going was right or justified. I looked at the hubster and felt pure and utter guilt. I kept the easy way at bay when some days I just wanted the easy answer. Sure there are aspect of my every day job that are quite “normal”, but I set it up on my terms and waited for something that felt right, not just comfortable.

I’m not just a bumbling mess when having to explain why I’m here.

I did it. I dug my fake leopard heels in and did it. That’s why.

Why are you here if not to experience this wonderful life as you see fit?

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Filed Under: Musings, Soapbox

What is Travel Hacking?

March 18, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

I hate to break it to you, but you’ve been lied to all along. Travel doesn’t have to be expensive.

I’m not going to tell you to stop buying your beloved Starbucks every day (although it would help), so you can save enough for that big vacation. The fact simply remains, if you want to travel, truly want to travel, you have to make it a priority. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard, “Someday we’ll go there. It’s just so expensive.” The reality is, it’s just not a priority for you then because as you’ll see, traveling isn’t just a luxury for the trust-fund babies of the world. We have bills, rent, student loans, a savings account and many more of the typical reasons that come to mind when people say they can’t travel. Did I mention the hubster is in medical school too?

There are sacrifices I’m willing to make because travel is so important to me. It may not be as important to you if you have other priorities and that’s totally okay!  Just know that if you truly do want to travel, you can make it happen. So, no more excuses. Now go get your camera ready and your bags packed.

 

What is Travel Hacking?

Travel hacking is for anyone who likes to travel, whether it be a trip to Disney, a last minute flight to see grandma or a business class ticket to Hong Kong. There’s something for every type of traveler. For me, I want to see more countries and do it for as little as possible. Revolutionary, right?

Through credit cards bonuses and your typical spending, you can gain hundreds of thousands of points and miles that can be put towards your big travel dreams. People in the travel world refer to this as Travel Hacking. As a copywriter, I don’t like the term “hacking” as it leads the reader to believe you’re breaking into something; this term is really only used for shock value. For me, this is all about strategy.

I’ll explain how I collect miles and points in upcoming posts and go through which programs I value more highly. But, a word to the wise: If you don’t like budgets or keeping an eye on spending, then travel hacking may not be for you.

It’s not rocket science, but it does involve a bit of planning and a little restraint on the dollar bins at Target. Damn the man, they get me every time. Again, traveling is important to me and I think of this every time I want (not need) another pair of beige flats from DSW.

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This isn’t just for singletons or DINK (Dual Income No Kids) households. (Or in my case, SIMS: Single Income Med Student household.) As you’ll discover, plenty of people make this possible with kids in tow.

Please note: If you do know something about collecting miles and points, I’m not experienced with manufactured spending. More importantly, I’m proof you don’t need to be. If you don’t know what that is, no worries, I didn’t either.

 

How I got started

I’m relatively new to the miles and points world. I hope you look at that and take comfort. I only started collecting miles and points just over a year ago for the specific reason to travel more. That means you, my little padawans, can do it too.

It may seem silly to some, but I’ve always wanted to fly internationally in a lie-flat seat. Don’t let anyone dismiss your goals, no matter how trivial or ludicrous that may seem. Well, guess what? We’re doing just that in the upper deck business class this summer on our Southeast Asia adventure.

It even has a bar, you guys.

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Image courtesy of One Mile at a Time

 

It will forever ruin our future international flights that aren’t in business class, I’m well aware. But I’m so excited!

A majority of our miles were on Delta since we used to live in their hub of Detroit. It just so happened that’s where our loyalty fell because it was so convenient. I had miles from business trips and we both had miles from traveling to see friends and family. It was nothing major, by the way. When we got married in England, I applied for the Gold co-branded Delta AMEX card (was upgraded to Platinum a while later) and amassed some more miles with the sign up bonus and flights to England and back. I put all of our flights onto my Delta card because we’d get 2x the miles. Miles started slowly adding up.

I know it may be shocking seeing as we had a destination wedding in another country, but our wedding wasn’t very traditional. The hubster and I were together for 6 years before we got married—we had more than enough kitchen utensils and hand towels. We set up a “normal” registry on Amazon with a short list that would probably piss off traditionalists. But when people asked us what we really wanted, it was an out-of-the-ordinary honeymoon. We put most money in savings and used some of it for our honeymoon to Cambodia and Thailand.

It was really right before we traveled for our honeymoon that I began reading about how I could use our miles for future travel.

While following several travel hacking bloggers, I couldn’t absorb the information quickly enough. Travel hacking suddenly became my guilty pleasure, it even beat out The Real Housewives sometimes. Sometimes.

Here are a few that I love and still follow today:

Million Mile Secrets
Million Mile Secrets
One Mile at a Time
One Mile at a Time

 

The Points Guy
The Points Guy
Delta Points
Delta Points

 

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Nomadic Matt
The Points of Life
The Points of Life

I applied for a Chase Sapphire Preferred card right before our honeymoon based on the advice of the experts above because there was a bonus of 40,000 points if I met minimum spending. The best and biggest feature for me at the time was no international fees. So we used the card the entire time we were in Cambodia and Thailand and met the minimum spending soon after by paying our normal bills.

I saw 50,000 points hit my account after I met minimum spending and also got additional bonuses based on which categories I spent money in. (2x the points on travel.) I was hooked. To give you an idea, that’s 2 roundtrip trip domestic plane tickets or nearly one roundtrip ticket to Europe, Africa or Asia.

 

Where can points and miles take you?

If your flight and accommodations are paid for, you’d most likely go on that trip, right? Well that’s what travel hacking does.

Since starting to methodically collect points after our honeymoon a bit over a year ago, I’ve accumulated enough for our trip to Southeast Asia this July. What does that look like?

  • 2 roundtrip business/first class tickets to Seoul, South Korea
  • 2 one-way business class tickets to Hanoi, Vietnam
  • 2 one-way coach tickets to Yangon, Myanmar
  • 2 one-way coach tickets back to Seoul, South Korea
  • Free or nearly-free hotel stays in each city

That’s a pretty massive chunk of our trip already paid for, so even if we have to pay for everything else in between, it doesn’t break the bank. We also burned through most of our Delta miles as the program has devalued quite a bit in the last year– but that’s for another post. We’ll most likely fly small, budget carriers between counties as that makes more sense than using points or miles from a points value perspective. But that aside, we only have our food, drinks and really pretty sarongs to pay for.

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Just so you know, points don’t need to be used for massive weeks-long international trips. I’ve also used them for our hotel at Disney World and a one-way flight between Spain and Portugal. While flying business class and first class is nice, it’s not my top priority if a travel opportunity presents itself. I’d rather fly 7+ hours somewhere next week than save for a few more months to do the same thing in first class. You’ll find that having points and miles gives you the flexibility to travel how you want.  You can even, although I don’t recommend it, use them to buy gifts cards.

I’ll be discussing the ins and outs of where to start in the next travel hacking post.

Traveling opens up all the possibilities that exist in this wild world. I fully believe that everyone should get the chance to travel. A cultural connection and understanding can sometimes only be gained by experiencing it. From drinking whiskey with friends in Scotland to laughing in a tuk-tuk on a cold night in Thailand, each experience is packaged away into little portions of your mind only to be taken out and shared with other open-minded individuals.

I want to share that with you.

More late night tuk-tuk rides are in our future.
More late night tuk-tuk rides are in our future.

 

Just let your mind simmer on collecting miles and points and imagine where in the world it could take you. Go on, dreamer. I’ll be right here cheering you along.

 

Is this something that interests you? Any travel hacking questions for me? Where would you travel if you knew your flight and accommodations were paid for?

Filed Under: Travel, Travel Hacking

Edinburgh, Scotland: Part 6 – Conclusion

March 13, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

Last year, we traveled to Edinburgh, Scotland for a quick mini-moon after our wedding in Somerset, England. We spent 4 days exploring old castles, climbing rolling hills and of course, sharing some Scottish whiskey with friends. I want to keep each part of these Trip Reports as short and sweet (and maybe picture-filled) as I can, so you can easily pick out the major details.

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This is Part 6 and the final post in a series about our trip to Scotland.  

Edinburgh, Scotland –  Trip Report Index

Part 1 - Planning & Introduction

Part 2 - Flight & Accommodation

Part 3 - Edinburgh Castle & The Whiskey Tour

Part 4 – Arthur’s Seat & The Ghost Tour

Part 5 - St. Andrews, Castle Course

Part 6 - Conclusion

On our last day we just walked around and took some pictures of beautiful Edinburgh.

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We bid farewell to friends with one final dinner at a Mexican restaurant. Because, when in Scotland…

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It was the best God damn Mexican food we’ve had to date. And that’s from someone who calls South Florida home. We had a few pints at a local pub and made the best of our last night together. We’re fun people.

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The next morning the hubster and I flew from Edinburgh to Amsterdam to Atlanta and then home to Fort Lauderdale. We’re travel troopers.

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I cried as we took off on the flight home to the states from Amsterdam. My emotions boiled over and the reality of it hit me. I didn’t know the next time I would travel again. I think the Hubster thought that the finality of getting married had just hit me, but he was dead nuts wrong.

I just didn’t know when I’d be hopping on a jet plane next. Traveling is in my blood. (Thankfully that was remedied 6 months later for our honeymoon to Cambodia and Thailand.)

What would I do differently?

Hit the Highlands. We realized too late that we wanted to visit the Highlands and go “Nessy hunting.” All the tours to see Loch Ness were booked and none of us felt comfortable enough driving a manual on the left side of the road. I would also require everyone to speak with a Scottish accent if we were to drive on the left side of the road. Some people just aren’t as good as that as me. I bet they felt intimidated.

Final Thoughts

Even though I’d been to Edinburgh twice at this point, I’m still itching to get back to Scotland. There are so many places that I have yet to see and explore. I just want to put on my hiking boots and Nessy hunting hat and GO! I just can’t get enough of the Scotland.

I hope you enjoyed our trip to Scotland as much as we did.

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Which was your favorite part? Which country should I blog about next?

Filed Under: Europe, Scotland, Travel

My Running Gear

March 9, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

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If you’re looking to get started in the kick-ass world of running, you’re going to need few things besides sheer determination and a cup of liquid diesel, aka- my kind of coffee. Even if you’re an old pro, it’s always helpful to see what other runners use. Below you’ll see a list of my go-to gear that’s proved to be tried and true over the last decade of trying new things. Honestly, I wish someone would have provided a similar list when I started. It would have saved me a lot of time, money, aggravation and boob chaffage (see below).

My Running Gear

We’ll start head to toe.

Brady Bands

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If you’ve ever had a problem with keeping headbands on your head, here’s your answer. 10% of your sale goes to a great charity, too. They have various widths— I use the 7/8 inch band.

 

Enell Sports Bra

Boobs rejoice. You’ve found your new home. I workout in nothing else. Well, not literally. That would be a scary sight. I simply always wear an Enell whenever I workout. I mentioned my love for Enell here. You need to try it to believe it.

 

Bodyglide

If you have to ask what this is, then you probably don’t need it. Just trust me when I say after running double-digit miles, your boobs chafe in areas you didn’t know could chafe. (I heard dudes use this for their nips too!) I’ve actually used it where my iphone holder rubbed on my inner arm. This stuff rules. And don’t let them sell you on the “girl” versus “guy” versions. It’s the same shit, just branded pink. Chafing is chafing is chafing, regardless of your gender. I get the travel size version and it’s lasted me over a year.

 

Under Armour Women’s Tech T-Shirt

Extra comfortable and a good price. Winner.

 

Garmin Forerunner 310XT

I’ve had this for nearly 2 years and it’s well worth the investment. I use it for running, but it also can be used for biking and swimming. I love being able to switch back and forth between current pace and my overall pace since I use the run-walk-run method. Plus, in a Florida downpour I don’t have to worry about this thing being ruined.

 

iPhone Holder

Nothing fancy. It does what it needs to and it’s cheap.

 

Old Navy Compression Capris

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I run in nothing else. Honestly. There I go again, saying I run in only pants, topless, boobs flailing about. You know what I mean. These are the best capris to run in, hands-down.

 

Brooks Socks

Thin enough to not cause blisters and they wick my sweat away like it’s their job. Well, technically it is.

 

Superfeet Insoles

My husband’s cousin who is a physical therapist and runner, suggested these for me when I had achilles issues. I often found running shoes didn’t have a high enough arch for me, or at least didn’t feel supportive enough. If you have a normal to high arch, these are life savers. I have 3 sets in total and often throw them in my shoes I wear to work. My achilles tendon has thanked me for Superfeet.

 

Newton Women’s Fate Running Shoe

Good running shoes are a good investment. I used to be an Asics Gel-Kayano gal until the gentleman at our running store asked if I wanted to try something different. I noticed a difference immediately. If you have a midfoot-striking gait, meaning you land mid-foot (not a heel striker or running on your tip-toes), then these are for you. Most people are mid-foot strikers. “Tuned Action-Reaction midsole technology in the mid-foot provides exceptionally high responsiveness and cushioning that resists against energy loss with every step.” Basically, these rule. I bought another pair just weeks ago because, well…who needs more heels when these things are the bombdiggity?

What are some of your go-to running items?  

 

Full Disclosure: If you purchase one of the products sold on Amazon through these links, I get a small commission at no extra cost whatsoever to you. As always, these are truly the products that I use and recommend.

Filed Under: Health, Running

Edinburgh, Scotland: Part 5 – St. Andrew’s Castle Course

March 4, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

Last year, we traveled to Edinburgh, Scotland for a quick mini-moon after our wedding in Somerset, England. We spent 4 days exploring old castles, climbing rolling hills and of course, sharing some Scottish whiskey with friends. I want to keep each part of these Trip Reports as short and sweet (and maybe picture-filled) as I can, so you can easily pick out the major details.

This Part 5 in a series about our trip to Scotland.  Stay tuned for more.

Edinburgh, Scotland –  Trip Report Index

Part 1 - Planning & Introduction

Part 2 - Flight & Accommodation

Part 3 - Edinburgh Castle & The Whiskey Tour

Part 4 – Arthur’s Seat & The Ghost Tour

Part 5 - St. Andrews, Castle Course

Part 6 - Conclusion

I like thoughtful presents. Ones that clearly took a little bit of time and preparation. The kind that obviously show the gift-giver knows you.

I didn’t think we were going to exchange wedding gifts because much like most things with our wedding, we weren’t super traditional.

Quick. Cute wedding break!

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I’m all about experiences. We had talked for years about doing a golf trip to the UK and Ireland. I knew we would visit St. Andrew’s while in Edinburgh, so why not give him the experience of a lifetime? Besides marrying me, of course.

How to play at St. Andrew’s Castle Course:

  • I bought the round online.
  • Emailed his buddy who was going to be with us in Scotland to confirm the newbie-hubster would have a partner. (I’m a decent golfer, but I would hold up this group and the courses in Scotland are much different than anything we regularly play.)
  • Convinced him to pack a pair of khakis and hid his golf rain coat.
  • Confirmed his shoe size in European sizing.
  • Got his golf shoes and clubs reserved at the Castle Course for his arrival.

Then, the day we got married, I gave him a copy of my emailed confirmation of his tee time.

His reaction was pretty great. And his response was along the lines of, “I knew there was a better reason you made me pack khakis that I didn’t want to wear!”

The morning of his round, he was all packed and ready to take the train out to St. Andrews from Edinburgh. He had everything lined up perfectly in our awesome flat. It was pretty adorable. I waved goodbye since I planned to meet up with him toward the end of his round to snap some shots and explore St. Andrew’s a bit more with friends.

He actually made me take this picture when he left. That’s how excited he was.

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I walked around Princes Street for a bit after he left and found a super cute purse at Top Shop for £5 that I still use today. It’s sad I can remember that, but I couldn’t tell you what I had for breakfast this morning. I met up with my girlfriend Jill that morning. It was her husband, Steve, that golfing with my newbie-hubster. We had lunch at a nice pub and then we hopped on a train to St. Andrew’s. That sounded so British that even I want to throw up.

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Upon arrival we were greeted by these two loonies, Jen and Ian. I love my friends. Note the hilarious sign. 2 Pretty Lasses. I’m still shocked I hopped in a car and went for a ride, you know, on the left side of the road.

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It all worked out. We’re still alive today. The feeling in my right side has finally come back.

We toured the quaint seaside town of St. Andrew’s for a bit.

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The sun finally peeked its way around the clouds and cast a nice yellow hue, highlighting the beauty of lush Scotland. We made a quick stop at perhaps the most famous hole in golf which is right next to the world famous Clubhouse of St. Andrew’s.

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Then we made our way to St. Andrew’s Castle Course so Jill and I could see our husband’s live out their dreams. I’m pretty sure they peed their pants twice. We caught up with them around hole 17.

The following are a combination of pictures the hubster’s caddie snapped, as well as when I joined. Enjoy. The views are fucking fantastic.

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Needless to say, I’m Wife of the Year. Not sure I’ll be able to top that gift for a long time.

After the boys wiped the drool off their faces, we headed back to Edinburgh and survived again!

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Soon after we said goodbye to our pals who were heading back the next morning to the states. It’s crazy to think this gal and I were roommates at Michigan State University and now, you know, just chilling in the streets of Edinburgh.

Life is fun.

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Up next is my conclusion of our trip to Scotland. Stayed tuned!

Filed Under: Scotland, Travel

One Month: No TV

March 1, 2015 By Caroline Peterson

In January, I listed some of my goals for 2015. Since I’m a glutton for punishment, one of those goals included giving up TV for a month. I know what you’re thinking.

You’re totally going to miss the 3rd season of House of Cards.

I know, I know.

I’m currently trying to remedy that situation by binge watching as many episodes as I can.

I also didn’t choose a great month because of NCAA March Madness and considering I’m an alumni of Michigan State University, this could be especially tough. That said, the Final Four and Championship are in April, so if my Spartans perform as expected, I may not miss them play.

So why am I giving up TV for one month?

In short, to bring more focus. You have to keep in mind, I spend a majority of my day writing, wracking my brain to come up with some creative copy, editing countless projects and proofing things on the fly before they go live. Sometimes the only thing my brain can handle when I get home…is mindless TV.

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Unfortunately, that mindless TV can turn into a distraction when I’m trying to be productive. The hubster jokes that I’m unable to watch a movie without doing something else. He’s totally right. I’m usually reading an article, writing on the blog or researching something on the internet.

But think of how much more productive I could be without trying to multitask while paying attention to the TV and complete whatever I’m working on. Plus, I may actually finish reading a non-travel related book this year!

So, that’s why.

I realize that some of you may be thinking that giving up TV may seem like such a first world problem. Guess what? It is. I’m totally aware of that and I’m hoping that giving up TV adds a bit more to my life than the Real Housewives does.

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Just for clarity sake, I sometimes joke that I wasn’t raised by wolves, I was raised by TV. It has very much been my refuge when things are tough or I want to escape. Sure that’s embarrassing to admit, but the reality is I’m sure some of you can identify with that.

Hey, intravenous drugs could have been my refuge. So, winning?

A few conditions:

This month is more about not actively watching TV.

  • We have a social life (shocking, I know). If we’re at a restaurant or bar, I won’t be asking them to turn off the TV.
  • The hubster likes to fall asleep to the mind numbingly awesome show, Forensic Files. If it’s on when I go to bed, I won’t be asking him to turn it off. I’ll read or set the sleep timer.
  • If I don’t finish watching House of Cards, I may have to complete it since it’s my duty as an American. Plus, Netflix isn’t TV, right?
  • If a national or international disaster occurs, I will turn on the news.
  • Funny YouTube videos don’t count. Especially squirrel videos.

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Wish me luck. Say a prayer. Send Starbucks.

Would you ever give up TV? How long do you think you could do it?

 

Filed Under: Confessions, Health, Mental Health

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